We Have the Wrong Definition of Sex

All sex is real sex whether we are putting a penis into a vagina or not.

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By Dr T J Jordan

There are many kinds of sex that don't privilege the hetero-normative style of "mating." We have gay, lesbian, and solo sex to name a few of the obvious variations. We have orgasms from the stimulation of hands, mouths, anuses, nipples, and toys.