The Two Most Important Things

Dr T J Jordan
5 min readOct 27, 2022

We ask many questions about our potential partners, but we often miss these essential qualities.

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By Dr T J Jordan

When we seek relationship partners, we tend to major in minor things.

We try to guess about compatibility from ten questions on a dating app. We set parameters like age and gender and sometimes even height, mistaking these for important things…

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Dr T J Jordan

Passionate about sexualities, masculinities, relationships, intimacy, mental health, CPTSD , animals, growth, psychology, and exotic locations.