The Rise of the Situationship
As we navigate the shifting nature of human connections, we find that not all our “relationships” have the quality of shared emotion.
By Dr T J Jordan
Once upon a different century, we humans relied on “husband” and “wife” to convey the ultimate message of connection and commitment. But then we woke to the fact that many important relationships exist in worlds where these terms don’t fit. And that many marriages never embodied the ultimate intimacy in the first place.
Our evolving forms of connection challenge our ability to come up with appropriate terms. But without labels, we can’t effectively communicate the nature of our interpersonal connections. Labels create meaning and define expectations.
We struggle for labels in a world where we fight against labeling. But we don’t tolerate ambiguity well, so we attempt to disarm it with labels. We despise that ambiguity can put our interpersonal connections at risk — as well as that the assumption of being firmly connected can deprive us of opportunities for something more.
In this era of interpersonal evolution, we…
