Should Women Back Off So That Men Can Work At Loving?

Dr T J Jordan
4 min readApr 18, 2022

Those who give warmth and caring feel more invested in relationships than those who receive.

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By Dr T J Jordan

Love coaches tell women to stop running after men. They tell women to back off so that men can work for love. In essence, they suggest that women should play “hard to get.”

This idea misses the crucial point: when…

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Dr T J Jordan

Passionate about sexualities, masculinities, relationships, intimacy, mental health, CPTSD , animals, growth, psychology, and exotic locations.