Introducing the Anti-Wife

Dr T J Jordan
4 min readMay 11, 2022

Love her, fear her, hate her — she is the stuff of which your husband’s bedroom fantasies are made.

Photo by LOGAN WEAVER | @LGNWVR on Unsplash

By Dr T J Jordan

There are women who embody warmth and sexuality throughout their lifespans, regardless of age or role. Somehow they never got the memo about being repressed and cold — or about an expiration date on sexuality — and they continue to work their particular magic with a healthy dose of humor.

They are mother, lover, mistress, daughter, grandmother, professional — all without relinquishing their sexual identities. They continue to attract because the natural fate of women who are in tune with their deepest and most authentic selves is to be irresistible. Sadly, however, they are in too short supply.

The anti-wife can be recognized readily:

She has not lost interest in the body she was given and has a knack for presenting it well, without being shy about natural imperfections.

She wears clothing that subtly but unapologetically — and intentionally — speaks of the erotic.

She talks in warmly sensuous, emotional tones about intimacy and love, plus she dares to speak openly about sex.

She is not interested in competing with women for the affections of men who are in relationships because she knows the worth of her…

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Dr T J Jordan

Passionate about sexualities, masculinities, relationships, intimacy, mental health, CPTSD , animals, growth, psychology, and exotic locations.