Does Your Life Suck? Try This

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Dr T J Jordan

We aren’t listcycles. We really don’t abide by the 5 ways to…or the 8 secrets for…In fact, by the third Sunday after New Year’s Day, we have opted out of the resolutions we had very carefully crafted. So much for lists (unless you’re going grocery shopping and just know that you’re going to forget something unless you write it down.) You haven’t stuck with your weight loss program, your exercise routines, your decision to spend your money more wisely, and whatever other promises to which we enthusiastically but uselessly commit ourselves.

Our lives are journeys of ups and downs, frequently characterized by more downs than ups. Lists can’t take into account the vagaries of our life journeys. They can’t keep up and they are linear while we are dynamic, usually fighting all sorts of dragons attacking us at the same time. You know that saying, “Bad things come in threes?” What it’s really warning us is that the one problem we are fixated on at this moment is going to be joined by a number of others.

Remember that old book “Been Down So Long It Looks Like up For Me?” by Richard Farina? It’s time to look up regardless of whether or not you’re down now, because life guarantees that you will be down, deep down, at some points in your future. It happens to us all.