Defensive Dating — A Challenge for Every Age and Gender

Dr T J Jordan
5 min readJun 7, 2023

When we’re looking for love, we need a dose of authenticity as well as some self protection.

Photo by René Ranisch on Unsplash

By Dr T J Jordan

Dating is a dangerous game. Our tender minds and hearts get wounded by rejection — and we’re confused about when to engage our bodies. We try to play the game well — but we tire of gamesmanship when we’re seeking long term love.

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Dr T J Jordan

Passionate about sexualities, masculinities, relationships, intimacy, mental health, CPTSD , animals, growth, psychology, and exotic locations.