Intimate, loving sex can take us into the most overwhelming, transcendent states of our lives, but having the sexual intelligence to get there isn’t always what we expect.

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By Dr T J Jordan

You and your body, whether wisely or unwisely, have made the…

Shame can become toxic for all genders, but for men, shame presents a particular catch-22.

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By Dr T J Jordan

We give our boys very conflicting messages. We teach them to pursue strength and to avoid weakness. We warn them not to be overly…

Transformation and renewal await us as long as we don’t let unhealthy emotions get in our way.

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By Dr T J Jordan

Every year we repeatedly make the same mistaken resolutions, knowing full-well that within several weeks nearly 80% of those resolutions will be…

Dr T J Jordan

Passionate about sexualities, masculinities, relationships, intimacy, mental health, CPTSD , animals, growth, psychology, exotic lovers and locations.

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