We each engage with the experience of loss the way we do most other things… By Dr T J Jordan Throughout our lives, we say goodbye again and again. We wave farewell to our earlier developmental stages and to the friends who were present during those times. We bid adieu…

This perspective of a “one and done” event is hurting us. By Dr T J Jordan The term “virgin” has long been used to embarrass boys and to value/devalue girls. Either way, it’s hurtful. …

It’s time to start breaking more rules… By Dr T J Jordan In ancient Scandinavia, we were warriors who were buried with our swords and shields. In Iceland, we were explorers who ventured to the Americas centuries before Columbus showed that the world is round. And we were women. We…

Learn how to build kindness within By Dr T J Jordan We all want to feel safe with each other, but we’re not all equally open to trusting or being trusted. If trust is difficult for you, you probably struggle with residual wounds from early or prior relationships that were…

What would you do to keep the flames of your passion from fading? By Dr T J Jordan There are times when we need to push the edges of our intimacy. But knowing when to push — and how— is difficult and scary. These edges are both emotional and physical…

Six steps for getting your relationship from here to there By Dr T J Jordan Sometimes we long to make sex more than the brushing of bodies. We yearn to touch the divine in each other. Sometimes we need to feel that we’re meeting each other’s souls. But getting there…

Monogamy can be the biggest issue for those of us who continue mating in captivity… By Dr T J Jordan In a world where hookup sex and casual encounters have become our fast-food diet of lovelessness, we don’t know what to hold precious or how to protect it. We’re trying…

How our more subtle attacks set up invisible walls and destroy relationships By Dr T J Jordan Being the victim of passive aggressive behavior is a bit like being hit where the bruise won’t show. It is a hidden attack that can hurt as much as a full frontal assault…

Without this, we can’t experience the deeper connections. By Dr T J Jordan Many of us have never experienced real love. That is, love without judgment or hidden agendas, love without a demand that we become something more than we are. Love that is unconditional. Many of us have missed…