In this age of sensitivity about consensual sexual activities, where is our concern about the consent women must obtain from men?

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By Dr T J Jordan

When he was seventeen years old, my dear male friend was raped by a middle-aged woman. She approached…

In spite of breakups, losses, and the many pains of intimacy, we continue bravely to try our best again and again to find lasting love.

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By Dr T J Jordan

Love scars us deeply and expands us recklessly. More than anything else, love shows…

Crying is meant to help us heal both mentally and physically, but if we can’t cry, we might be suffering from anhedonia.

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By Dr T J Jordan

In some cultures, crying still is denigrated as the behavior of effeminate people and young children. …

If we hope to find intimate compatibility, we need to reveal our sexualities at the start.

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By Dr T J Jordan

A male friend tells me about his frustration with dating apps that promise relationships yet skirt the crucial issue of sexuality. Women don’t…

Dr T J Jordan

Passionate about sexualities, masculinities, relationships, intimacy, mental health, CPTSD , animals, growth, psychology, exotic lovers and locations.

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